And me too! It sounds like we're on the same page with that!
I think that hanging out with friends more often falls into the "get a life" technique. It's one of the most often overlooked, yet one of the most important, parts of DB'ing.
Constantly "working" on your R 24/7, without ever taking a break from it, can destroy your PMA in a hurry, and add to your frustrations. You get so deep into the problems, that it makes it tough to be able to see any solutions for yourself.
"Getting a life" can help to make you happier with yourself, which in turn can make you more attractive to your partner.
IMHO, actual "dating", as you perceive it Cindy, can be something that adds fuel to the fire of an already complicated situation. Yes, why add to the problems that you already have in the m!
JJ
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