So sorry, itm, I know how it is with your S. When my S found out, he was so shocked and angry, he actually said he wished a truck would hit his F and kill him. He had to deal with it in his own way. He felt what he felt, and I couldn't tell him what to feel or how to feel. He, of course, didn't mean what he said, at least not later when things calmed down. It makes me cry now to think of another child going through that. I am sure his older brother will help him to get through it. He will probably have to ask you more questions it may be painful to answer, but since the worst part of it is out there, just honestly telling him what he needs to know will help him to process it. So, he's about to turn 15? Has he been studying for his learner's permit? If not, maybe that could be a distraction.

It really stinks that ow works at YOUR store frown Well, if you decide to keep going there, you can hold YOUR head high. Mishka can tell you about running into ow. I don't know what ow looks like in my sitch, so who knows if I have run into her. I am hoping it was that 400lb. female with the chopped off hair and warts on her nose I saw at Wallyworld. Wearing neon green spandex.

And YAY!! for your mother sending you a check. Mamas are good people smile

Give your S lots of hugs, he will need them.

vc