Since the drama of the other day, H has been almost overly attentive. Its like a complete 180. He is engaging me frequently, saying he loves me and that he doesn't expect me to say it in return. He did do some back sliding, however, saying he didn't want to wear his wedding ring (although he does expect me to wear mine).
I am really struggling with this still. I just have so much doubt about how we could go from 'you better get a L, I'm not giving you any more money' to H wanting to work things out, calling me constantly, telling me he loves me in less than 2 weeks time.
Part of me thinks there is some angle in it for him, something catalyst that prompted the dramatic change. Some of my support group speculates that H talked to a L, and gave him the skinny on the financial and custody aspects of a D. He even asked me if I felt like I was going to miss an opportunity if I chose to work things out (which is actually possible from what a L told me).
He did imply that question was more about the imaginary BF he has created for me, and he has been obsessed about me talking to anyone of the opposite sex.
I just hate feeling this way, and I am hoping the wise peeps on the MB can tell me if this is normal. We are going through was seems like a complete role reversal. Has anyone witnessed a WAS make this much of a change in less than 2 weeks time? How do I handle this? Is it normal for me to feel paranoid and very skeptical?
