agree w/ labug to remove that sentence. i know you don't mean to.. but it sort of sounds like you're trying to teach him a lesson.
ok.. bit of a tangent here.. my gf has been doing this.. "i feel..." with men recently (from a self help book as well) because the book suggests that men respond better to feeling messages (my gf is big into psychology stuff). just general things like.. (i feel so happy today! i'm going to the movies w/ my gf and it feels so nice.) she's had several taxi drivers turn off their meters because they enjoyed her conversation so much.
anyway.. my point being.. you could maybe put in feeling messages in your letter to H? like.. "i have not mentioned these instances because i feel like i don't want to put Ds in the middle..." just a suggestion.
(((( BK ))))
Me:38.. H:33. Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3 M:8.. together for 11. Bomb dropped:10/17/11 Separated:11/07/11
