wow. he is a bunch of contradictions it seems. silent treatment but yet shows up at your place at breakfast... if he really didn't want to talk to you, he wouldn't come around.

as for his list of "concerns".. sounds like a checklist of things to justify his decision.. whether they be valid or not. good on you for validating and reminding him why you can't do all those things (in a calm manner).

IMO.. he sounds like he's really on the fence. stay your course.. because it seems to be working!

(((((( purg ))))))


Me:38.. H:33.
Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3
M:8.. together for 11.
Bomb dropped:10/17/11
Separated:11/07/11