He is seeing the changes that you've been making. That's a big plus. As with any of them, they are not "convinced" that the changes are going to last. So you just need to keep doing what you're doing and prove him that the new Purg is there to stay.
You're doing so amazing and I wish I was able to be more zen like you!
Your H is very confused, especially with the recent developments. I hope that he'll slowly start opening his eyes and see what a great family he's got and what a fool he'd be to walk away from that.
If he starts giving your more attention all of a sudden, take it, but be careful. He should not be able to get off the hook just because his plans with the OW have been torn (I still love the fact that whatever his R was with the OW, that they're now "poof", and you had nothing to do with it!). Sounds like you should take more of those trips by yourself, huh?
