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Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6 labug #2223220 02/18/12 04:28 PM
Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 825 Virginia P purgatory OP Member
OP purgatory Member P Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 825 Virginia	Aaaaaa!! H keeps coming up with surprises.... Confusing ones! H brought up a concern about something S6 said while I was gone, it brought up a concern in H about my parenting style. [i breathed and channeled zen purg] I validated, but I also pointed out how S6 interprets 'mean' things from parents and that he was exagerating.... Somehow H moved into some deeper thoughts about me as a person (I guess he had some things he's been keeping from me) here's the short list: - I've been lazy throughout life, always trying to find short cuts - I won't strive for a career - I don't go to the gym anymore - I didn't want to work on our R (WTH???) (fun things to hear about yourself, huh?!) Unfortunately I gave him a raised eyebrow about the R comment, and I reminded him that the doctor's told me not to workout until we have a diagnosis and plan (but in a normal voice- which was REALLY hard to keep in check.) He followed this 'bashing' with: "I know how much effort you're putting into your life now and I admire that. You've made plans for you future- talking about hobbies and talking about going back to school- but until you do something, I'm not convinced. I know what you're trying to do here, and I think you have the ability to accomplish it." He gave me a hug, kissed my forehead and left for the day. Flash to me with a giant question mark over my head and my mouth dropped. Any ideas? M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12

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Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/07/12 04:11 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	Jenna333	02/07/12 04:30 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	BFloat	02/07/12 11:58 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	sayitaintso	02/08/12 12:29 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/08/12 04:04 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/08/12 04:07 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	ces67	02/08/12 03:58 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	25yearsmlc	02/08/12 06:42 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	nhmom	02/08/12 06:57 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/09/12 01:01 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	sayitaintso	02/09/12 01:27 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/09/12 01:34 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	labug	02/09/12 01:37 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	BFloat	02/09/12 09:40 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/10/12 09:58 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	Jenna333	02/10/12 10:25 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	rickb89	02/13/12 07:40 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	RoRoinMD	02/13/12 07:55 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	Grmpy_Mnky	02/13/12 08:11 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	Oneeleven	02/13/12 08:23 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/13/12 09:06 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	31nheartbroken	02/13/12 09:07 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	BFloat	02/13/12 09:49 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/13/12 10:07 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/14/12 03:36 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	rickb89	02/14/12 03:36 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/14/12 03:43 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	Grmpy_Mnky	02/14/12 04:05 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	ces67	02/14/12 01:15 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	Oneeleven	02/14/12 01:29 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	labug	02/14/12 02:31 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	rickb89	02/14/12 02:58 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	RoRoinMD	02/14/12 05:08 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	WenikiTiki	02/14/12 05:47 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	31nheartbroken	02/14/12 06:31 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/14/12 06:59 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	BFloat	02/14/12 07:10 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	nhmom	02/14/12 07:48 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/15/12 02:05 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	31nheartbroken	02/15/12 02:18 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	ces67	02/15/12 04:29 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	keep_going	02/15/12 12:47 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	Oneeleven	02/15/12 12:53 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	Oneeleven	02/15/12 12:53 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/15/12 02:48 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	Grmpy_Mnky	02/15/12 02:56 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/15/12 03:21 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	ces67	02/15/12 03:29 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	Grmpy_Mnky	02/15/12 03:32 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	nhmom	02/15/12 03:58 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	ces67	02/15/12 06:20 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/15/12 11:52 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	ces67	02/16/12 12:17 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	BFloat	02/16/12 12:30 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	labug	02/16/12 02:15 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	BFloat	02/16/12 02:21 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	Jenna333	02/16/12 08:02 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/17/12 05:29 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	Grmpy_Mnky	02/17/12 05:44 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	BFloat	02/17/12 05:46 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/17/12 05:52 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	BFloat	02/17/12 05:55 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	Grmpy_Mnky	02/17/12 06:05 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	ces67	02/17/12 12:56 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	sayitaintso	02/17/12 01:56 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	rickb89	02/17/12 02:38 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	labug	02/17/12 04:12 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/17/12 04:31 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	nhmom	02/17/12 05:59 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	BFloat	02/17/12 06:19 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	WenikiTiki	02/17/12 07:55 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	BklynMom	02/17/12 08:27 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	rickb89	02/17/12 08:55 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	Jenna333	02/17/12 10:46 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/18/12 03:30 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/18/12 03:31 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	BklynMom	02/18/12 03:49 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	rickb89	02/18/12 04:55 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	rickb89	02/18/12 04:57 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	Grmpy_Mnky	02/18/12 05:02 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	keep_going	02/18/12 06:20 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	BFloat	02/18/12 08:38 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/18/12 02:23 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	labug	02/18/12 03:08 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	labug	02/18/12 03:09 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/18/12 04:28 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	nhmom	02/18/12 04:45 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	BFloat	02/18/12 04:52 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	25yearsmlc	02/18/12 06:37 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	25yearsmlc	02/18/12 06:41 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	RoRoinMD	02/18/12 07:17 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	RoRoinMD	02/18/12 07:20 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/18/12 10:07 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/18/12 10:13 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	BFloat	02/11/12 12:24 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	Oneeleven	02/11/12 12:46 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/11/12 06:35 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	BFloat	02/11/12 05:08 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/11/12 09:58 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	Jenna333	02/12/12 03:13 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	WenikiTiki	02/12/12 07:42 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	Grmpy_Mnky	02/12/12 07:50 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	Grmpy_Mnky	02/12/12 07:51 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	25yearsmlc	02/12/12 08:56 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/13/12 03:00 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	mr mr	02/13/12 03:11 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	25yearsmlc	02/13/12 07:27 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	ces67	02/13/12 01:17 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	labug	02/13/12 01:31 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	Oneeleven	02/13/12 01:34 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	31nheartbroken	02/13/12 04:47 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	purgatory	02/13/12 05:49 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	keep_going	02/13/12 06:26 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	keep_going	02/13/12 06:01 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	mr mr	02/13/12 06:11 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late....part 6	rickb89	02/13/12 07:53 PM

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