I've actually got a date tomorrow...well a non-date but I'm going out! You are right I still need to act as if I will be moving on, that I can move on without him. He needs to see that.
Yes, I'll leave out the ILYs and be fun, happy, whatever. No pressure, no r talks. And I agree that I need to validate his negatives about the m when he brings them up.
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