I can relate to your story. My husband has neglected to be forthcoming with communication also citing that he felt it would be hurtful to me, so he just didn't say anything and it all came to a head without me being able to do anything about it. I guess that is the most frustrating part for me. Had I known how he truly was feeling, things probably would have been different.
Hang in there.
Me- 43 H- 45 Married - 3 yrs Together (off and on) 9 yrs No kids Bomb- 9/2011 Separated - 2/1/12 Filed for Divorce - 2/10/12