I was bummed my h did not call me last night after getting my message (there I go Ms Impatient!).
He calls me THIS MORNING!!!! And then invites us to go golfing on sunday and says we can do the hockey thing too (response to my message).
I was all sweet honey while talking to him. And I thanked him for calling me back (180) and told him to have a great day!!!
Oh, and I left him a very sexy message on his answering machine (this I did BEFORE he called me).
I woke up in the mindset that the d is no longer an option. After letting my attorney know to dismiss, I'm in such a better mood. Kind of scared of doing without the child support...but hey I live with my parents, don't have a car payment and don't pay rent so I should be more than ok !!!
It is scary but should h refile it will become 50/50 community property which means I lose the house. I don't care now...those are just material things. I can get another house anyway...I have the VA.
Today is going to be a GREAT day! Thanks for your advice, it has reinforced by perspective on this whole situation.
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