Cindy, this really does sound like a great session you had today! I don't think there would be much that I would disagree with what your C is saying!
I would, however, have to add just one thing (just 'cuz that's the way I am!! )
Along with dismissing the D on paperwork, dismiss the D in your mind. Take the thoughts of it off the table, don't make it an option. Make a commitment to yourself that, no matter how you are "feeling" at any certain time, it is just a feeling.
That the things that you are doing are NOT to avoid a D, but you are doing them to make your relationship better.
You're a smart lady, you'll know what these things are as they come along.
JJ
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