Wow, that is news. I guess it wasn't so serious for om after all. He wasn't such a good guy as she thought, was he?
I would tread very carefully here, though. You don't want to rush into any sort of R talk that might make her back off. Definitely no pressure. She could let om back in, but knows she can't trust him, so even if she did, it would most likely be short lived. Take it really slow, have the dinners at your home, let her come if she wants, let her have the opportunity to see what she could have every day.
I think she will eventually see the one she left was, in fact, the better man after all.
