OM has gone back away, and my wife has found out he has been emailing another woman for months!!! They have never met by the sound of things, but he's been flirting in emails to her for quite a while, they have spoken about meeting but haven't yet?
Wife is really upset, she has told me its not because of him, but the upset and lying She told me that he's a nice guy, but she could never trust him again, he's trying to wiggle out of it, but she seems firm that it's over
She has had 2-3 hour conversations with me each night since she found out, told me everything about them, I have listened and been a good friend
We have spoken about us, again she has told me that it was only the drink that split us up, and how much she loved me, it was all past tense, but I know how we both feel
Last night she came to mine for dinner with the kids, I cooked and it was really nice, kids loved it, they were really happy and relaxed
So now do I just keep my distance, no pressure and be there for her, or go a bit dark??
