Ten, I used all caps on YOU for a reason. I went back and read a bit more on your sitch. Your wife is not a posession, nor is she an adversary unless you let her be. For now she is not your best buddy or spouse. The only reason you may feel as if she is jerking your chain is becuase you are letting her hold the leash. Go "free range" brother!
Me: 44 Bomb: 11/27/11 Divorced:6/12 Life goes on: 6/13