RMC,

I've had suspicions in the past and only once did it pan out. He admits to dating ow not anyone exclusively though.

He maintains right now that he is working on the marriage. Not sure what he means by working on or even if that means he's only seeing me.

Don't know for sure if there is ow and until I have absolute proof (like phone #s, receipts, phone messages, etc.) I won't bring it up nor get stressed about it (maybe a tad worried but not stressed).

I appreciate the warning and believe me that is an idea I have considered. My h has never been satisifed by me and what I do for him though...but I think it is more a reflection of dissatisfaction with himself. More like hurt me so he can feel better kind of thing?

I'll pray about it...cause scripture says God brings to light those things men hide in the dark. It's worked in the past to pray about my concerns with ow and God will reveal her if it is going on. I have no doubt about God doing that!

Thanks.

Cindy