Well, I detected a little bravado in your reply, thats a good thing, keep it up..
Quote: H says that if I get it, like what I told him last friday..that I know he works hard, that I need to be more appreciative of him, that I need to be content with what he is. This is what he says I NEED TO GET, for this to work.
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Quote: Or maybe I'm totally wrong but shouldn't I just do what he asks me to?
You know what, maybe you should just stick to doing that, and I'm sure when I visit your thread a month from now, things will be just fine...Good luck with it.
Quote: I was so independant, he was afraid to ask me to marry him because I would turn him down.
Let me get this straight, you were more independant back then, and he was pursuing, wondering if you were too good for him?? Off the record, I'd get that Cindy back here in a hurry, she'd know just how to handle this guy.. Curious, did you always put him first back then? Would you say you were more "appreciative", "grateful" and "compassionate" towards him then versus how he maintains you aren't now? If you were, then scratch everything I've recommended to stem the tide, put YOUR needs on the backburner and just do those three things. On the other hand, if you weren't, then maybe its not really about doing anything more than being the person you were when he WAS attracted to you when things were going good. You can be strong, happy, confident, and independant within the context of a healthy R..
