Too Little, Too Late....part 6

[nhmom]

Wow, can you say karma? How timely is this accusation? You are in a good seat right now. You don't have to do or say anything and it will still draw your H your way.

I really hope that this will serve your H as a big wake up call. Only time will tell, but I really, really do hope so for you.

I bet you can't wait to see your babies again! I hope you were able to accomplish what you wanted to on the trip, and clear your mind a little at the minimum.

Have a safe drive home!

[BFloat]

no expectations is always good.

drive safe! will be checking for your post tonight. wish i could see your photos! i bet they're awesome! can't wait to do mine.

[WenikiTiki]

Hey Purg!

I hope this works out. Sure sounds like some of the same crap we went through recently.

It sure gets complicated, doesn't it.

Aloha,

Wendy

[BklynMom]

OMG, wow. I know that life has to teach the WAS how hard it is but boy did your H get a smack down.

Your Former BFF seems insane. She is all of sudden gonna back to her crazy EX.

You need to get a new outfit to wear around the house. Your H is gonna be around a lot more. Get a cut & color if you need it.

I love how your H got called out --- that it doesnt matter if they are fing or not their behavior is not appropriate. You keep being the good guy.

[rickb89]

Purg - how do these things get settled in the military? Your H's superior thinks his own W is your H's OW? This is probably how wars start.

Can you court martial someone for being a numbskull?

Purg - taking this trip now shows how the powers that be are there to help us.

[Jenna333]

Your exBFF's exH thought your H has had feelings for her for years? Yikes. Do you think it's true, considering that they do in fact have feelings for each other now?

[purgatory]

Because of detours through small towns and speed traps... My 13 hour drive turned into 15. I'm so sore and tired!

I didn't make it home before the boys had fallen asleep H was still up, and said: "what's going on" as he was playing a video game (not exactly the welcoming I had hoped for) We talked for a few about the boys and plans for the weekend, then H left. He is watching a movie and crashing at his 'room' at the friend's house. He says it's because he wants to be able to sleep in tomorrow (and honestly, that's not really possible in our house with the boys and our animals.)

Try as I did not to have expectations- it still hurts that he leaves within 10 minutes of my arrival. No hug hello or good-bye, no 'glad to have you back'. He did seem to linger and looked depressed as he left- but didn't say anything and didn't change his mind.

Guess life is back to 'normal' around here. I'm going to try and have a nice breakfast with my babies in the morning.... IF I can drag my butt out of bed!

[purgatory]

Also meant to say, I have read everyone's thoughts, and I will respond when I can think straight tomorrow. I really appreciate you all keeping up with my journey... And the speed bumps along the way

[BklynMom]

Oh course your H acted cold towards you. He has been hammered this week. You need to be extra sweet and all peaches and cream. Turn into a happy stepford wife, look cute and act super happy.

[rickb89]

Because of detours through small towns and speed traps... My 13 hour drive turned into 15. I'm so sore and tired!

I didn't make it home before the boys had fallen asleep H was still up, and said: "what's going on" as he was playing a video game (not exactly the welcoming I had hoped for) We talked for a few about the boys and plans for the weekend, then H left. He is watching a movie and crashing at his 'room' at the friend's house. He says it's because he wants to be able to sleep in tomorrow (and honestly, that's not really possible in our house with the boys and our animals.)

Try as I did not to have expectations- it still hurts that he leaves within 10 minutes of my arrival. No hug hello or good-bye, no 'glad to have you back'. He did seem to linger and looked depressed as he left- but didn't say anything and didn't change his mind.

You deserve a much better welcome home than that...sending u a virtual back and footrub!

Guess life is back to 'normal' around here. I'm going to try and have a nice breakfast with my babies in the morning.... IF I can drag my butt out of bed!