Point taken, and I really try not to bring it up, but it's things like when I took S to the doctor last, W expected me to feed him when I got home, when I'd already accepted her request to take him to the doc for her, or not wanting to change a diaper as soon as I get home from a 12 hour day. It's at these points that she starts accusing me of being a bad father,
Do you call this being a good father? Why is it you see you taking your S, (he is 'yours,' right?) to the doctor something you do for her? When was the last time you said, 'W, S seems a little sick and has a fever. I think I'll make a doctor appt.' or 'I think it's about time for S's check-up, let me call and make that appt at a time that works for me so I can take him.' Oh and she expected you to feed him!
About the few minutes to yourself on getting home from work. Have you ever told her that? 'W, I'd love to take over for you when I get home from work but could I take 10 minutes to change clothes (whatever as long as it doesn't include cracking a Bud).
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
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