Husband filed for divorce on 2/10/12. I am devastated. Is it too late to make this all stop? I feel like things just spiraled out of control right before my eyes and I don't know how to stop the spinning.


Me- 43
H- 45
Married - 3 yrs
Together (off and on) 9 yrs
No kids
Bomb- 9/2011
Separated - 2/1/12
Filed for Divorce - 2/10/12