Point taken, and I really try not to bring it up, but it's things like when I took S to the doctor last, W expected me to feed him when I got home, when I'd already accepted her request to take him to the doc for her, or not wanting to change a diaper as soon as I get home from a 12 hour day. It's at these points that she starts accusing me of being a bad father, when at these points, she's either been off all day, or has been off for the last few hours. I'm not opposed to feeding him or changing his diaper, but in both cases, I feel I'm entitled to having a moment to settle into the house JUST A BIT before I start chasing the little guy around.
While you are work for 12 hours....
Take a look at that....
When you walk in the door, after your 12 hours...
Who has been changing diapers, and chasing him around for that time ????
