feeling like giving up.....former DBing against OW

[mishka422]

Oh heavens ITM, I'm so sorry. That all sent you spinning again.

You know this already, but it's like another shock to your system and it's going to take time to process it all. Be gentle with yourself, take the time you need to grieve again, and then you will be able to put it behind and focus again on yourself and your kids.

Your son is going to have to talk to the C at some point. He needs to process too though and that will take time.

It all sounds like platitudes, I know, I'm sorry, there just really is no other answer. What your STBXH is doing is cowardly but that is his problem and not yours. Take charge of your life, ignore his, keep being the strong, confident woman you are and you will make it!