Thanks for your words of encouragement. I fear I have lost my way because of the level of fustration I reached because of my unmet needs. But you are right...as soon as I started to EXPECT my needs to be met and when they were NOT I was pissed. That was my mistake...expecting stuff from my h. BIG NO NO right now.
My h is right in some respects...i need to chill out and have fun with him. You know men are really simple creatures...NO REALLY, they actually mean what they say. They don't double talk like gals do . By h saying for me to chill out...he's not negating my feelings he's just trying to the fixer he is/solution oriented, I guess.
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