Can 2 people go from friends, to EA (but not PA), and back to friends?? Can the marriage recover if they literally are just really close friends now (in my simple little brain, I believe she ended the EA to try to work on us) or does she need to eventually get that influence out of her life for us to really get this thing back and have our marriage be re-born??
Short answer is yes, long answer start reading all those resources.
Recovery is not going to be pressing a button and all is well.
You must LET GO and move on with YOU. If your R was meant to be then it can recover as long as you have love for her.
You will decide when this is over. But that is not NOW it is later down the road. For now there is no shortcuts on this.
Start with detachment and work your way from there.
