Alaskangal,

I used your advice last night:
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I hear and see that you are angry. I am sorry that you are angry because of ...... I don't like to see you so upset. Is there something I can do to help you feel less angry?


My h didn't actually respond with any suggest as to how I could help him be less angry but just by me saying this it diffused a lot of his anger. Took the wind right out of his sails!

Thanks! Glad I read your post before talking to him.

You are a Godsend.

Cindy