What do you hope to gain from asking the questions? Asking him 'what are you thinking?', 'why have you done this to us?', 'is there something I can correct that help?', etc. will only drive a further wedge between you and push him further away.
Men, especially, don't want to think. Once they have made a decision and made a move they don't want to be questioned on it or forced to think about it again. He will likely circle back around to thinking about the situation in his own time. That doesn't mean you'll like the outcome of that time, but he will revisit it.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
