This is when you need to focus on the acting. Tell him how at first glance you like his proposal then get your lawyer to tell him that his crackpot proposal is not gonna fly. Let your lawyer be the bad guy.

It is very confusing to take responsibility for our bad behavior but also recognize that this has nothing to do with whether you were a good W or not. Your H is suffering from a disease right now similar to alcoholism but just as real. He needs help and he needs treatment. Just as an alcoholic. Unfortunately they will only get treatment when they hit the bottom. This is not the man you married this is his disease.

I know its so devastating that they are taking down their whole family with them. He has a cancer and it takes many rounds of chemo to kill it.

We love you!!


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13