What questions do you want to ask?

I had/have a similar situation. I finally decided it wasn't for me to know right now and I didn't want to know right now. What he was doing/not doing shouldn't interfere with my life. Obviously we both have things to figure out.

I had to quit worrying about what was going on in his head and live my life. I will know when I need to know more.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss