could someone please help me with a few questions...
1) if I am not suppose to pursue, but I have questions how do I ask?
My problem is that damn wedding ring is still on my h's finger, we have not discussed divorce at all in a couple months yet he is continuing his life with out me... I dont think he is dating, however I truly dont know... I know if I am following db i am not suppose to worry about him and only worry about me, but yet I cant help it...

how can he be ok with this... for over 10 years I heard words from him that seem to be all about love, now nothing... zero... what am I suppose to think?


m 41
h 44
d 17 (prev marriage)
d 9
Never give up!!!!!