OUCH! Sorry for his unreasonable, thoughtless and betraying request, NLW. So selfish.
I think it's really urgent that you see a lawyer now because the lawyer can issue demand letters or similar for WAS to provide you with the financial information you need to make informed decisions in the interest of yourself and your family.
If you can't afford one, do you have family law pro bono centers nearby or something like Legal Aid societies?
Me-53 W-49 D22,D18,D15 T-Since-12/2001 Married-9/2004 She Moved Out-5/28/2010 Piecing start-04/2011 Now-together Thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2079304