Great job, Purg! Hope you're family's future is not negatively affected in that way by you H's poor choices.

Just a word of caution-try not to give too much advice or fix-it for him.
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I told him the only thing he could do right now, whether STBXH files a claim or not, is to stop all communications with OW. I told him that he needed to ensure that there was no way anyone could misconstrue what was happening. He agreed.


Is this the old take-charge fix-it Purg? That could come back to bite you in the butt. Whenever he asks a question, allow him answer it himself. "What do you think you should do?" "What are your choices?" That way it can never be "Yeah, but you told me to do that!"

Remember, they always like our help...until they don;t like it.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss