Forward, Thank you for your kind words. I can't believe OW in your sitch posted pictures of her in a wedding dress. After much thought, I am not going to contact ex. I don't think it would be wise. It would put us right back in the same dysfunctional communication pattern where ex has control over my emotions and needs. I am working on better detachment techniques and focusing on the present rather than the past. Thank you for being such a good friend.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
