Don't focus on the 30 days, don't focus on the divorce. Focus on what you need to do to save your marriage. Take care of yourself, show your H you'll listen to him. If he's yelling and screaming, don't get drawn in. Later, think about what he was yelling about, and see what you can do different to prevent his rage. Learn what you can do to be a better wife for him, but don't be a pushover.
As for parties, well kinda. But it's in Houston - dart tournament, which means a hotel ballroom with a bar.
