Posting to others will get you off of moderation quicker.
I am going to ask Cadet to put some links up for you to read.
For now, take some time to learn all that you can.
Slow down, relax and breathe.
Time is your friend right now. She has admitted that these are her things to figure out. And as hard as it is, you have to stand on the sidelines while she does her work...
