It is difficult being a victim of circumstance for very long around here but I see you are trying pretty hard...

While you know it, the text was a pretty bad move.

Actually, you have made some serious mistakes that you seem to want to gloss over.

First, why do you have a restraining order? And why on earth do you think its ok to violate it?

Never mind DB and NC and LRT, you should NOT have been having contact with her.

The legal ramifications should have been enough to quell your ego.

Why are you above the law?

Next, this OW...

You don't need a new R right now.

Sure it feels good to have someone interested in you, especially when the person whose interest you want is gone...

You admitted you started talking to her to make your W jealous.

That is manipulative towrads your W, and just plain thoughtless towards this person.

You don't need a woman to GAL, and I really think you need to take some time to be alone and figure your own stuff out.

Material possessions are great, but most women, want more than that and definately don't owe a man anything because of them.

Look at your thinking.

You may be becoming better, but you have a very long way to go.


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox