Hopeful and Sandi, thank you for your advice. My intention was to not be controlling at all. I was only concerned about the safety of my child, and her too. I will try a different approach in the future. Thanks.
H:38 W:37 Married:15 years S:7 D:5 S:4 Bomb dropped Feb 2010 Affair Discovered Mar 10 Divorced Sep 11