Where did my life go?

[irishblessings]

Antonia -
Thank you so much! I was wondering much of the same. He is being recruited for basketball (which is really all his dad is talking to him about) - but I want him to choose a place for their courses of study. I absolutely know my son knows that he has better social skills and a better realistic picture of the "real" world than his dad did. Dad was D1 athlete - star. Rest of us - just normal:) But I know my son wants to put himself in a position to really take care of a family in the future. That's the MOST important thing to him.
Anyway - thanks again! REALLY appreciate your perspective!
Irish