BF sorry to hijack. Roro if you look at my sitch I have been looking at how I get from A to B. What makes me go from zero to a hundred, how I justify my behavior etc. Admitting is a good thing but it is step one. Purge said earlier that she was violent a few times towards her H. She is aware that it is wrong but was brushed aside fairly quickly. Read above and see if it makes sense. I am not excusing a H for having an A.

What I am saying is that we should focus on what got us here. Once we adders those maybe things will improve quicker.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden