BF sorry to hijack. Roro if you look at my sitch I have been looking at how I get from A to B. What makes me go from zero to a hundred, how I justify my behavior etc. Admitting is a good thing but it is step one. Purge said earlier that she was violent a few times towards her H. She is aware that it is wrong but was brushed aside fairly quickly. Read above and see if it makes sense. I am not excusing a H for having an A.
What I am saying is that we should focus on what got us here. Once we adders those maybe things will improve quicker.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”