Good Morning, Wiley! Thanks for your reply. Now that I look back I see that I should not have called him back once he hung up. I should have left him alone to think he's right. Boy does THAT get under my skin! You are right though I should not let him get to me anymore. I'm working on that.
Quote: Well, maybe you need to take a long hard look in the mirror and ask yourself if you deserve something more out of a mate than what you're putting up with.
I agree that I don't deserve to put up with h's behavior anymore. It has been like this for 7 years! Exactly the same! Just as before he'd have days where he was loving, affectionate, talkative but the OTHER far outweighs those good days. I've decided I can't go back to that...that is why it is easier this time not to get riled up because I see I can go on without him. He can choose to change after the d.
Quote: When somebody cares about you the RIGHT way, this type of behaviour does not continue to happen.
What if he really doesn't know the RIGHT way to love someone? What if he honestly doesn't know? I ask myself this but then immediately ask "well if he doesn't know then why doesn't he find out how?". Do you think he's so insecure he's afraid to find out how? Can a man really get this tied up, frozen up?
