Ok, today was h's birthday. I left him a message at home saying "happy birthday, hope you had a great day of it!". Well tonight he calls me at 6:12pm...I'd gotten home at 6:30pm, made dinner, cleaned kitchen, had sons start homework, then called him back at 8pm. He's pissed! Says if I'd called earlier we could have done something for his birthday! Starts going off saying how come I didn't do anything for him! While he's going off I'm getting boys to table, urging them to get started. Well h gets mad says well appararently you have no time for me and says he's hanging up. Well there is a big pause before the hanging up this where I usually beg him not to...and in some surprise at my NOT doing it he has to follow thru on this threat and hangs up!
I call him back about 9:15pm to say it was unfair for him to expect me to plan something for him when I don't live with him, have no idea what his plans are...how can he expect me to plan something? he says well I don't know why you would remember my birthday you NEVER do! I said hey come on...look at last year, didn't you make plans, go somewhere for your birthday when I called to ask you out? He said I don't even remember last year...I said well then it's unfair to pin this on me. I'm sorry it didn't turn out like you wanted it.
He's plenty upset at me for not planning something. (I had talked to one of his friends Sunday to plan a surprise night out on the town to celebrate...don't know if I'll still do that???) In the past his birthdays have been celebrated with dinners and cakes, I'd remember usually to wish him happy on his day and buy him something...but he doesn't remember that, nor any of the gifts I got him. Whatever!
He's finding everything wrong with me! I can't get anything RIGHT!
