Quote: I was thinking of calling myself but don't know what I would say....I'd probably get to find out that he's going out to party on 6th with his 'friends' not his w.
I would call, and wish him a happy birthday. Stay away from talk about what he's going to do or anything else. Keep it very upbeat, and if starts to go south, just tell him It's not fair to discuss this on your birthday. Happy Birthday. And hang up. My opinion - if he wants to go out with others, fine. Let him go and have his fun, consider it your present to him. Don't read anything into it right now - he's just trying to show he's a big-shot.
