Hi Bkln, so sorry to hear about the papers. I have had a visit from a process server previously, and I know that pain.
I have to agree with the other posters, the fact that it is a S and not a D I think has to show he's at least still on the fence.
Recently I spent a lot of time looking in the drive for the process server to show up again. That feeling in the pit of your stomach is second to none. I was talking to my sister about it, and she made a great point.
No matter what it is coming your way, the fear of the unknown is always worse than the reality of it. Once you know what it is you're dealing with, you will figure out a way to deal with it. No matter what it is. The things that go through our heads are likely to be much worse than reality.
