Sounds like you had a pretty good weekend all things considered..Of all the replies to your thread I've read since friday, Racheal's advice to you really hits the bullseye..
Quote: If he wants you he'll come back no matter what you do....he has to come to you out of free will or it won't mean a thing
She's got that right!
Quote: Don't be afraid of losing him.
Truer words have never been "threaded"...LOL.
When you get to the point where you just quit worrying about whether you're pushing him away or whatever, and start living as if he's not coming back, you automatically improve your chances of drawing him back towards you.
The more he seems to not "want" you or the M, or whatever, the more you try and think of ways to stem the tide, and that of course will prove fruitless, as you've seen so far. We can't force someone to come back and commit to something they feel wouldn't be happy in, it just can't be done. So, you just give in and move on, no expectations, no pressure, and see what happens.
