Trusting, My personal opiniion is that whether they know how we feel or not, they could care less...when I asked my xh (at the time still married), how would he feel if I had done to him what he had done to me. His answer, "I wouldn't like it". Their empathy chip is damaged to the point that they do not care about anyone else but themselves.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
