You are right...dropping the d may not change h's mind. But since he continues to maintain that this is MY d...if I drop the d, h would have to refile. Or not refile. Then I would KNOW if he really wants the d by his actions once I drop the suit for d.
As for financial jeopardy, I'd most likely loose the house but then everything would become community property again and be split 50/50 so I could come after his retirement, current account, his new car, etc...should he choose to refile. Not to mention the equity in the house...that would be split 50/50 (right now I get all of it).
