I agree with Wiley, you have plans on Sunday after H comes to pick up the kids...right?
The movies, get a pedicure (fun to do any time of year!), take a drive ANYTHING but hangin out with H.
Be that happy, fun, good lookin gal that you are as you skip out the door!
One other thought I had as I read your thread... Remember to look for the important things. Don't focus on the "needs improvement" parts of H. There is a saying that says, "What you see depends mainly on what you look for." If you want to see good, look for it!!