Argh! So want to be detached and not care about this but right now.. I obviously can't. And when I take the kids away for spring break is he planning on staying here? Because I want to make it clear that I don't want "visitors"!!! I am really choked right now. How do I draw my boundaries without just losing it???
((((((BF)))))))))
You're not the only one thinking that way. When I go on P's and my wedding trip *alone*, I am SURE P will bring home various strangers to the house. They will be petting my cats and have access to my stuff.
I know this is weird but I am seriously comtemplateing putting everything that is mine that the women he brings home may touch. IE: my shampoos and soaps, all the spare bedroom which I will be occupying. He also would be the type to lend them my snowshoes and sh*t so I will hide those away too.
Honestly, I won't even trust sitting on the couch after leaving him alone there for ten days. Yuck.
