Waiting for the tides to change - 2

[purgatory]

I'm so sorry you discovered those photos. I can totally understand wanting to yell and scream (maybe even slash tires?)

We all handle the discovery of OW/OM differently..... But in the end, the only thing we *can* do is to turn the other cheek. I like to think of mine as a pimple on my marriage: ugly, painful and full of nastiness. When you pick at them, they only get worse, but leave them alone- and they go away on their own. (and it kinda gives me a giggle to visualize her head as a puss-filled, red irritation... Can't wait for it to pop!!)

Ces has some great advice about how they are a 'cheap distration'.
((((BF))))