7 Years in. Time to give up ?

[AntoniaB]

One of the major rules of DBing in MWD's book is that if something isn't working, try something else. Since DavidA "sticking it out" all these years isn't working, all he's doing is trying something else.

When a poster seems, from what they post, wanting to "stick it out", I think many of us offer support for that decision. But if a poster has fought the good fight for years and years on end and sounds ready to disengage from that fight, we also owe it to support him/her in that decision. We were merely validating the choice he said he made already.

It has nothing to do with our own situations and frankly I find it offensive that everyone who offered support to DavidA with what HE needed support for has now been told to revisit their own situations and essentially personally attacked. This has nothing to do with us as we all have different situations. It has only to do with him.