7 Years in. Time to give up ?

[DavidA]

Please folks, didn't mean to start an altercation. You all have valid points and advice and there comes a time in every relationship when it's just plain time to let go.

I supported my WAS out of Love and the belief she was in MLC and didin't have a clue what she was doing. But after supporting her and helping her get out of that situation she just jumped back in somewhere else I knew it was time to cut my losses no matter how large.

I don't hate her or dislike her in anyway. I am hurt and disappointed things happened the way they did. I almost feel sorry for her, knowing what she gave up and the path she has chosen for her life. She has alienated most of her family relationships as well as most of the few friends she had.

Not my problem anymore. Not looking for her to ever turn around. So there is no more hope. Which is a good thing for me.

I'm sure it won't be long before she will force the sale of the house and leave those of us living here looking for a new place to live. Our 2 youngest children and 1 grandchild are still here with me. One day at a time. I'm tired of worrying about it.

I have to get ready for work, Will check in later, DavidA