Waiting for the tides to change - 2

[BFloat]

All worked up right now!!

I was loading music onto iPod to prepare for spring break. H keeps a backup of his iPhone pics on computer. I looked through them because it was a lot of pics of the kids when they were younger. So.. Imagine my surprise at finding 3 pics of his "friend" that had moved away around bomb drop time. I have always been suspicious of this friendship. Photos that she obviously took of herself and sent to him. Photos of her at work and a close up.

That j$rk off never had 1 photo of me on his phone and he has 3 of her!! He
must think I'm st%pid!! I really want to punch his lights out right now. What kind of man leaves his wife and kids like that??

Argh! So want to be detached and not care about this but right now.. I obviously can't. And when I take the kids away for spring break is he planning on staying here? Because I want to make it clear that I don't want "visitors"!!! I am really choked right now. How do I draw my boundaries without just losing it???